RELATIONSHIP: TIME TO BREAK UP, SEX, LIES?

Assessing Your Relationship

The hardest part to a relationship comes at the end when it is over. The beginning is wonderful and full of excitement and freshness. It is very alluring and the goodwill that is created can carry a relationship through hard times. However, newness fades and the relationship stales. Many times when everything else has been tried, thoughts of ending the relationship come into play. How do you know it is time to move on?
  
Being realistic about your feelings is the first step. You need to assess your wants and needs to see if they have changed. Then look at your partner and assess him or her, as he or she is, and evaluate whether they fit into the grander scheme of your life. While your life should be lived in the present and each day made as special as it can be, it is not wise to ignore what the future may bring. 

If you are being abused, hurt, cheated on, or lied to then chances are the relationship will not survive. If the issue has been brought up repeatedly, and remains unresolved, then your own happiness must become paramount. The connection you have with your partner should never include one of a degrading and insulting nature. 

Think about the future you are creating. Consider the extra burden you are carrying in dealing with your partners' behavior. Is he a shameless flirt? Is she bossy and demanding? Insecurity and lack of confidence can lead to problems down the road. Relationships are not about control and manipulation. When those factors enter into the relationship, and cannot be removed, it is time to end it.

Do you truly enjoy each other's company? Do you find yourself relieved whenever you part company? If a sense of relief occurs within you at your partners leaving, then this is a large sign that should not be ignored. Relationships need communication and closeness to survive. If you're finding yourself wishing your partner were gone more than you wish they were there, the end is near.

 

Evaluate your role in maintaining the relationship. Relationships are a two-way street. Each person has to be involved in giving and taking. When one person takes more and does not reciprocate, the relationship begins to wane. Equal participation and reciprocation in a relationship is imperative to its survival.

Does your partner show by actions that you are still important? As they say, actions speak louder than words. Your partners actions may change over time, but the attentiveness in their actions should not change. If your partner continually forgets to call, or ignores your calls, you have to ask yourself if this is acceptable to you. If not, then decisions will need to be made.

Do you feel accepted and appreciated? What can really be said in response to this question? If you are not feeling appreciated and you have discussed it with your partner and nothing changes, Move On.

Each person has to assess why he or she is in the relationship and how much mistreatment he is willing to accept in that relationship. Eventually, continued neglect between partners will result in hard feelings and a hurtful end to the relationship. Keep in mind that this assessment should be made after one feels they have made all the attempts necessary to revive the relationship.

By Greg Wendland

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VIEWER STORIES - BUST WITH ME

                                                 I want another bi dick to suck and jerk...
as much as I Luv chicks my confession is to worship another bi guys big thick dick...
to suck and rim him til he shoots a load.

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THE BOSS

IT'S YOUR MOVE...

WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

Your friend is the man
who knows all about you,
and still likes you.

A GOOD DAY

Standing in line at the Unemployment office was a nightmare for Carlos who never envisioned himself being here. He had been fired for being caught smoking marijuana on his break.

Ironically, it had been his first time trying the stuff but nobody would believe that. He had looked for a job for three weeks and now had just lost his apartment. He was staying at a motel and was running low on cash. He had worked as a day laborer for a few days but found it difficult to get work.

As the line moved forward, he stepped on something. Looking down, it was a newspaper, he leaned down and picked it up and flipped to the classifieds. He found a job titled: "Handyman Needed - No Experience Necessary" It didn't list the pay but he didn't care right now. Anything over minimum wage would support his for now. He walked over to the payphone and called the number. A man answered the phone, they talked briefly before the man invited him to an interview in a few hours at the address given. Carlos agreed and hurried back to the motel to prepare.

He took a shower and then put on a button up shirt and black pants and shoes. A while later, he set out across town to the house.

A few minutes early, he walked up to the enormous house and knocked on the door. A man answered the door and invited him in. Carlos was shown into the living room which had high ceilings and bay windows.

The man sat down in front of him. He had olive eyes, had tanned skin and brown hair. He asked Carlos a few general questions which Carlos answered truthfully, even the reason for being fired. The man told Carlos that the benefits included room and board to which Carlos was thrilled. The man then asked Carlos different kinds of questions.

"Very good, and how old did you say you were?"
"Twenty Two"
"Ah yes, of course, and why did you not go to college?"
"I had an opportunity to go strait into work"
"Oh,
"So, where did your family come from?"
"Santos Domingo"
"So, do you go to the gym often?"
"Yes, I guess so, almost every day"
"So health is important to you?"
"Yes"
"Okay, do you have a girlfriend?"
"No, not for a while"
"I see"

Then, Stephen leaned forward and told Carlos that he had found the perfect job and that he'd passed the interview before it had started. Carlos was confused and asked for clarification.

"This is no ordinary Handy Man job, your job here is to simply pleasure me. I attract young, strong men with that ad and you are perfect."

Carlos reacted with disgust until Stephen began to explain the benefits. Carlos would have free room and board, come with Stephen on all his vacations and not have to do anything most days. in addition, he would be payed generously.

"How much?" inquired Carlos.
"Two thousand a week"

Carlo's jaw dropped. He knew that now, the once sworn-strait young man was Stephens.

Carlos agreed and Stephen told him that he wanted to examine him closely. Stephen told him to strip to boxers. Carlos did so and Stephen began to feel down Carlo's hot body. From his broad shoulders, down his strong chest and abs, to his waist and firm, round butt and finally, his crotch.

Stephen pulled down the shorts of Carlos and looked closely at the long, dark-brown penis and it's accompanying balls. He felt it and then he told Carlos that he would suck it. Before Carlos had time to respond, Stephen was already sampling the tasty treat. Carlos tasted so good and as his dick hardened, Stephen began to suck harder and faster. Carlos could not believe how good it felt and began to moan quietly. Then, Carlos came into Stephens thirsty mouth.

Stephen got up, kissed Carlos, and tucked a wad of twenty dollar bills into the boxers of Carlos's boxers and left the room. Carlos counted out $200 and sat there thinking about the fact that was the best blow job & easiest job interview ever. Carlos is so looking forward to his next assignment!

VIEWER STORIES: CALL FOR SERVICE

This guy decides to join the Navy. On his first day of service, he gets acquainted with all the facilities around the ship he will be serving on. The guy asks the sailor showing him around, "What do you guys do around here when you get really horny after months of being out at sea?" To which the other replies, "Well, there is this barrel on the upper deck, just pump your cock in the side with the hole."

Weeks pass, and the new guy is getting real horny and remembers the barrel. He climbs to upper deck and sees the barrel. Flings his dick out and starts fucking the barrel. Its simply the best feeling he had ever experienced, it was truly a success!

After he was done, zipped up and merrily walking along, the guy who originally told him about the barrel walks by. "That barrel really was great! I could do it every day!"
To which the other crew member replies, "Yeah, you can every day except Thursday." Confused, the new guy asks why, to which the other guy replies, "Because its your turn in the barrel on Thursday.

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HAVE YOU BUST YOUR NUT TODAY?

MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND PLANS...

IDEA'S ANYONE?

QUESTION?

Have you ever watch a friend of yours have sex with
somebody? What were the circumstances? What did you
do while they were doing it? Did you ever tell them
you were watching or listening? What was their
reaction?

TODAY'S MAN CANDY

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TODAY'S THOUGHT

Life is a gamble. You can get hurt, but people die
in plane crashes, lose their arms and legs in car
accidents; people die every day.

Same with fighters: some die, some get hurt,
some go on. You just don't let yourself believe
it will happen to you.

VIEWER CONFESSIONS

Bob said;

I've never considered myself gay or even bi-curious,
but one night I was at a peep show watching a movie
my dick in hand, stroking it.

As I was doing this, someone in the adjacent booth
decided to stick his dick through the hole. I took a
look at it and figured why not? I started to stroke it
and it became nice and hard; in fact, it was big and
thick, so I got on my knees and took it into my mouth
and proceeded to give the lucky guy my very first slob
-job.


Aside from feeling a little anxious, it was a turn on to
feel his cock get harder and hear the moans from the
other booth. I hadn't paid any attention to my own
dick, but I could feel it surge with excitement and
it was harder than a steel rod.

It didn't take long for the guy to express his pleasure
in the form of a nice warm and healthy load. I had no
thoughts about swallowing every drop and I savored
every bit of it. Since then, I have noticed most adult
book stores I go to have too many queens, so finding
a good one is hard.




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TODAY'S CONFESSION: WHAT'S YOURS

I wish I was a donut

And got eaten every day

To stick on someone's big ***k

In a most delightful way

I wish I was a donut
Glazed coated just for fun

Full and round for easy

grip And a hole to put your tongue

I wish I was a donut
Long and filled with cream

Delicious on the taste buds
A succulent silken dream

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